Yes... I did it!! Yes, I ate the damn chocolate chip cookies, fried chicken, mashed pototes (with beef gravey), and I had a huge slice of red velvet cake too!!! Yeah, I did it... so what??? And I washed it all down with Dasani water. Now if you will excuse me I need to make an appointment with my colon hydrotherapist and go on a two day juice fast. (sniff, sniff.... hey, did you see that elephant run by?)
- Confessions of a MadSexy
One day a father of a little boy showed up at a baseball field. It so happened his eight year old son lost a lens from his glasses in centerfield and was searching for it. As the father wandered onto the field nearing his boy, he began screaming at his son for losing the lens.
One of the coaches, David called “Time.” David and others went out to center field to look for the lens. However, the dad kept shouting threats and obscenities at his little son. Then, he cocked back his fist and punched the little boy in the face. The boy went down.
As David painfully observed, he saw the precious little boy lying there stunned. Then he sat up, fighting back the tears. He would not cry.
Immediately, David went to him. Putting his arm around him, David gently said, "Don't worry, you didn't mean to lose it. We'll find the lens. It will be ok." The boy burst into tears.
My heart broke when I heard of this as I could recall my own personal story wrapped up in this - as a little girl (with my mom). The minute David touched him, this little boy sobbed. His little spirit responded to love.
Do you recall what it is like to be eight? At a moment like that, this little boy was confused. In his young mind, he had done a bad thing in losing his lens. He knew he didn't mean to, but “motives” aren't understood at that age. After all, his dad was mad, so he had to be bad. He had no idea what others felt. As far as he knew, they felt the same way his dad did. Oh, the insecurity this little one must have felt at that moment.
But he also felt another pain: a crushed spirit from the screaming, a broken heart from the fist. Deep within he was created by God to be loved, but no one loved him. He was designed to be valued and treated as significant. So, he held back his tears. If he cried, it could get worse. Everyone might turn on him. He felt so alone and scared. He wanted someone to comfort him. Then a hand was placed on his shoulder and an arm came around him. He heard the soft voice of a kind man who had been playing baseball with him. "Don't worry, you didn't mean to lose it. We'll find the lens. It will be ok." The boy burst into tears. It was love. It was honor. He was rescued. Oh, if only dad had joined in and said, "Will you forgive me?"
Fam, every human spirit longs to be loved and respected. Every human spirit cries out, "Does anybody love me? Am I significant to anyone?"
Looking beyond this little boy, what about you?
I slept like a rock last night. I dreamed I was a pretty pink pebble surrounded by soft powered sand by the sea and Goddess love be the best.
- Madison Carlista, living in puffy clouds and playing with puppy dogs :-)
Research reveals that during marital conflict a husband most often reacts when feeling disrespected and a wife reacts when feeling unloved. We asked 7,000 people this question: when you are in a conflict with your spouse or significant other, do you feel unloved or disrespected? 83% of the men said "disrespected." 72% of the women said, "unloved." Though we all need love and respect equally, the felt need differs during conflict, and this difference is as different as pink is from blue! Read your bible.... there is a reason why God instructs women to RESPECT your MAN and God instructs men LOVE your WOMAN. Never is it mentioned the other way around.... there is a reason!!
- Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, Love & Respect Ministries (OMG! I just listened to this audio book, Love & Respect... THIS IS A MUST HAVE FOR ALL LOVE STRUCK, HERO STANDING HUMANS [i.e. guys & gals])
I can't give you a surefire formula for success, but I can give you a formula for failure: TRY TO PLEASE EVERYBODY ALL THE TIME. Personally, I believe (and will demonstrate by practicing more) in putting self 1st. Everytime I have put myself 1st, everything / else / one just miraculously falls into place.
- Herbert Bayard Swope, An American Journalist and 1st recipient of the Pulitzer Prize, mixed with a bit of sanity from MadSexy ;-)
Wednesday Dec 22 | Posted by: roboblogger
HPV vaccine approved for anal cancer
Gardasil , the human papillomavirus vaccine approved in 2006 to prevent cervical cancer got the green light Wednesday by the Food and Drug Administration for use in preventing anal cancer and other precancerous lesions caused by the virus.
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Nothing about the FDA or AMA even remotely surprise me anymore. So now Gardasil has been approved for anal cancer? Seriously? With all of the numerous reports of girls and young women that have experienced adverse affects from this drug, they still find it necessary to go even a step further.
If you pay close attention to the demographic of the which the advertising is positioned you will notice that it is intended for those that are among the lower rungs of the economic ladder. Now amazingly enough, because of the economic trial we are experiencing, there are numerous people that are now on the lower rungs of the ladder, but with one teeny weeny difference. They Understand/Know Better. They have been exposed to information that can help them to make powerful decision about how they want to and need to care for their health.
This, sad to say, is just a process of elimination by genecide of the ignorant and blantenly self righteously stupid.
Until we take responsibility for our own health and well being, "they" will continue what is good for you and want is not good for you and like mindless herded sheep, you will follow.
Thre are numerous avenues of information from the Health Ranger to The Issels Foundation (for those that are dealing with advanced stages of cancer).
Ultimately people YOU are responsible for your health. Your ill choice of diet, lack of exercise and alkalizing water...oh and those sorid harbour of nasty emotions (anger / hate / jealousy / even stress) all contribute to the creation you so readily have manifested. Instead of figuring out how you got yourself into the mess your in you run to the nearest white lab coat with a stethoscope and say, "Doc, I know I screwed up my health with my mindless lifestyle, but here... you fix me."
Ok, that's my rant for the day. This has been a Mad Monolouge by Madison Carlista.
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